Let the Programming Begin
The Beginning.
Standing there next to her at the bookstore, watching her move still turned him on although they had been together for almost ten years now. She is 5′3″ tall with long curly auburn hair and a body with all of the right curves. Some would look at her and think she was a bit on the heavy side but I knew better. Under the loose fitting clothes was a wonderfully built trim athletic body of 125 pounds.
She handed me a book with “hypnosis” in the title and I wasn’t particularly interested, but I started reading the back and caught the phrase “hypnotize your friends and family”. Now that sounded interesting. I could hypnotize my wife. “I wonder what that would be like” I thought as I put the book back on the shelf.
Ten minutes later we decided it was time to go. I hadn’t thought too much about the book until Cathy asked if I was going to get the book on hypnosis. “Sure” I replied as I headed back towards the shelf that housed the book. We paid for you treasures and headed towards home.
Two weeks later, I finally got around to reading the book on hypnosis after a couple of the fiction titles that I picked up at the same time. It was interesting reading, especially the section on sexual disorders (i.e. impotency and frigidity). Reading through those sections made me wonder if I could help improve Cathy’s libido a bit. Cathy was always great when it came to sex, it was just that over the last 4 or 5 years with her career and our children, sex seemed to slip down the list quite a ways. In my opinion, it slipped down to the bottom of the list and was no where near as uninhibited as it had be the first couple of years of our marriage.
After having my interest piqued by that book, I decided to do some research online about hypnosis, its uses and if I could really learn how to do it. After what seemed like hours of searching (most of it at work, under cover hoping that I wouldn’t get caught online) I thought that I had read enough about it to maybe give it a try. So the next question was with who to practice? Would Cathy let me practice on her?
Finally a couple of days later I asked “Cathy, you know that book I read about hypnosis?” she responded in a somewhat nonchalant manner. “Would you be interested in being hypnotized?” I asked. She again responded nonchalantly, but positively. So we set a time when the kid’s wouldn’t be interrupting us and decided that we would just work on relaxation to see if it really would work.
“Close your eyes and relax” I started, “feeling yourself sink deeper and deeper into the bed, feeling yourself becoming more and more relaxed” I read from the script I had downloaded off of the internet. “Know that you have nowhere else to be, nothing else to do, with no one wanting anything from you right now”. She laughed, how could she laugh? “I’m sorry” apologetically she said, “but I don’t feel like no one wants anything from me, you want me to relax don’t you?” Well she had me there, but what a shot to the ego. I thought that I had read and rehearsed enough that something like this wouldn’t happen. Back to the drawing board I schemed.
I dug even deeper, read even more, bought videos of others being hypnotized and eventually found someone I could practice on that expected to go into trance so my confidence grew slowly but it continued to build up. Then I came across a certification program. It wasn’t very expensive and I could do it online and over the phone so I enrolled in it. I continued to learn more and more and my confidence grew even more as I got positive feedback from the instructor. After about 6 months, I felt confident to try again and this time I wouldn’t fail.
“Close your eyes and relax, breathe in relaxing feelings and breathe out all the stress and strain of the day. Now relax your eyes so much that you know that they are too relaxed to open and when you know they are that relaxed, test them to make sure they just won’t open” I began. It was such a simple induction and took far less time then some of the progressive relaxation inductions and seemed to work well on the other people I had hypnotized. “Very good, now take that relaxation to the top of your head and send it down to the tips of your toes, feeling the muscles relax all the way down”. She tested her eyes, they hadn’t opened and I could see her starting to relax, this was working and I knew it would only be a matter of time before she was deep into trance. “Relax your eyes even further and again test them, very good, now send that deeper relaxation down your body feeling the sensations of relaxation as the muscles relax even further.” Her body and face looked even more relaxed and her breathing was becoming more shallow, almost there, but I am taking no chances.
“I want you to imagine yourself at the top of a beautiful staircase with 10 stairs. I am going to start counting down from 10 to 1 and when I reach one, I want you to imagine yourself sinking into the softest bed you have ever been in with the most comfortable pillow and down comforter, can you do this?” “Yes” she replied sleepily. I am getting so close now, I am starting to get a bit aroused just thinking of the fun soon to follow. “10 stepping down on the 1st step, going deeper into trance, 9 becoming more and more relaxed, 8 sinking deeper down with every step you take, 7 deeper and deeper into trance, 6 more relaxed, more comfortable, 5 further down into trance with every step down the staircase, 4 deeper and deeper, 3 more and more relaxed, 2 deeper into trance and 1 sinking into that soft comfortable bed, feeling the weight of the comforter on your body.” She sure looked like she was in a trance, shallow breathing, eyes moving behind the eyelids. Maybe I should test her? My confidence was still a bit shaky with her because you just never know. Is she just playing along or is she really in a trance? I know I’ll test by using fractionization. “Cathy, at the count of 3, not before, you will open your eyes and look at me. When you hear me say the words “Good night Gracie”, you will go back into a trance, deeper than before, do you understand me?” a slight nod accompanied with a quiet “Yes” let me know that she was ready to give it a try. “1, 2, 3” she looked at me, and not before the count of 3, this must be working. I gave her the code phrase and down she went. I tried again, but this time I paused after the number 2 waiting to see if she was anticipating the 3, but nope, she just waited and after is said 3 she looked at me again. This is so cool, I must be doing the right things, but I’ll have to test just one more time. This time I paused after the 1 and hurried through the 2 and 3 and she did exactly as told. She sure must be in somnambulism! I did it, now on to the 1st part of the plan.
I thought I would start out easy and work my way towards the fantasy that I’d had in my head almost from the day I finished that 1st book. “Cathy, I want you to remember when we were 1st starting to date and how easy it was to get you sexually excited, can you remember that?” “Uh-huh” was the reply. “Cathy, I want you to really experience that in your mind, really feel the sensations in your clit, feel the wetness build in you vagina, as if I was touching your clit and sucking on your nipples right now.” She slowly started to squirm and I could se her nipples harden through her blouse. “Cathy, really feel it, want it and crave it. Really experience these sensations of having your nipples sucked and pinched the way you like and feeling your clit rubbed in the circular motion that you love.” She was really starting to squirm and her breathing was getting deeper and heavier. “Are you enjoying these sensations? Are you really feeling them?” She groaned lightly and her hips swiveled and pressed down into the bed. It sure seemed like she was feeling and experiencing them, now it was time to set the post hypnotic suggestion to see if this really works. “Cathy, from now on, any time you hear me and only me say to you “Nipple Time”, you will feel these sensations. Your nipples will harden and you will feel the wetness begin to grow between your legs as these sensations are triggered in your body. If you hear me say “Nipple Time” within 5 minutes of the last time I said it, the sensations will grow more intense, as if the sensations doubled and this will happen every time you hear me say “Nipple Time”, the sensations doubling again and again. If you don’t hear me say “Nipple Time” within 5 minutes from the last time I said it, or I say “Back to Normal”, the sensations will slowly fade away and your body will return to normal. Do you understand these instructions?” “Yes” clearly was the reply. Now I had to bring her out and hopefully get her to think that this was just a relaxation session. “Cathy, you inner mind will remember these instructions and act upon them any time you hear me say those special words, but your conscious mind will only remember that you were very relaxed and comfortable and that you enjoy having me do hypnosis with you, do you understand these instructions?” “Yes” again was the reply. Hopefully that will work, only time will tell, time to bring her up. “Cathy, when I count to 3, you will be fully alert and awake remembering what a relaxing and comforting session this was. 1 – More and more aware, 2 – coming back into awareness and 3 – fully aware and awake.” Now I had to distract her a bit. “You sure look relaxed, do you feel relaxed?” “Definitely” she replied looking dreamily at me.
Later that evening, Cathy and I went for a walk along the waterfront of where we live. It’s a beautiful area with a big beautiful lake on one side of town and mountains on the other. It’s fall and leaves are starting to change and she loves seeing all of the changing colors and feeling the cool fall air. As we were walking I asked her if she remembered much about the hypnosis session. “Not much” she replied, “just feeling very relaxed and looking forward to having another session.” Fantastic, she didn’t say anything about the post hypnotic suggestion that I gave her, it’s time to try it out.
“Nipple Time”, she turned to look at me with a questioning look and then sheepishly turned away. “Are you OK?” I asked. “Fine, I’m alright.” But I noticed a bit of breathlessness in her reply. “What did you say to me?” she asked “Because I just had the strangest sensations.” “Really, would you like me to say it again?”, she just mumbled and kept on walking although not as quickly as before. We walked for a few more minutes, but I couldn’t wait any longer. “Nipple Time” I said again, this time she turned towards me and I noticed her face starting to blush and her nipples protruding through her t-shirt. She was breathing heavier and just standing there squirming a bit, but she didn’t say anything else. “Nipple Time” I repeated and she inhaled deeply and seemed like she was having a hard time standing so I reached out to steady her. She was breathing heavier and her eyes were barely visible under her eyelids. “Nipple Time” I again repeated and she leaned heavily into me with panting breath. She was starting to grind into me and I could feel her nipples poking me like 2 little knobs through my shirt as well. This is going to be fun I thought as I considered whether to continue or to give her a break. Just then I saw another couple approaching from around a corner. “Back to Normal” and her eyes blinked a couple of times and she peeled herself off of me with a quizzical look on her face.
“What in the hell did you do to me?” she asked. “Well, now that you know that I can cause this affect, I should probably fill you in on the details.” “Damn right you should, I didn’t give you permission to do anything like that to me!” She barked a little to loudly, but she was right, I shouldn’t have done it without her permission, although from what I had read, she would have rejected the suggestions had she truly no wanted to do this and as I explained this to her, she started to calm down. After calming down and walking for a while she stopped and looked at me, “I’m still a little turned on” with that sexy little look that I haven’t seen in quite a while. “What shall we do now?” she asked.